Frequently Asked Questions

family of four, mom dad two twin babies
  • A postpartum doula typically focuses on newborn care, feeding support, and helping around the house. I focus on you - the emotional, relational, identity, and practical dimensions of becoming a mother. I'm not there to hold the baby while you shower, but if you need that, I can certainly do that, but it’s not the best use of our time together. I am there to help you figure out what you actually need, communicate it, and build a life that works in this new season.

  • No. This is postpartum coaching and support, not clinical therapy. I'm not a licensed therapist and this isn't a substitute for mental health treatment. That said, many of the moms I work with also see therapists — the two complement each other well. If at any point I think you need clinical support, I'll tell you directly and help you find it.

  • Occasionally. If there's a specific conversation you need help having with your partner, or a dynamic you want to work through together, we can do a session that includes them. The primary focus is always you, but I understand that your relationship is a huge part of your postpartum experience.

  • Sessions are conversational. We start with what's actually happening, and go from there. Sometimes that's processing something emotional. Sometimes it's working through a practical problem, taking out a computer and building a written plan for you. Sometimes both in the same hour. I follow your lead.

  • Not at all. Some of the moms I work with are doing okay on the surface but feel like something is off — disconnected from themselves, from their partner, from what they thought this season would feel like. You don't have to be in crisis to benefit from real support.

  • Yes. I’m best resourced in Austin, however I can support in NYC as well. I am not [yet] an agency and I cannot guarantee placement, however I will support on writing job descriptions and discussing training and transition plans with you.

  • That's the whole point. Life with a newborn is unpredictable. If your baby ends up in the NICU, if your relationship hits a wall, if your nanny falls through - we pivot. The support adapts to what's actually happening, not what we planned for. Welcome to motherhood!